Dating work plan
Because what if someone you forced into liking you actually wants to be with you? You will never know why they like you and if or how that will stay that way.
Enabling things to happen is making yourself more available or easier to be found by a potential partner.
You need both pedals to move forward, both God leading your life and you making your own decisions. Because like even very little children, if God would let you do nothing yourself, you’d protest quite loudly, and rightly so.
Part of developing into a healthy adult is learning how to fail and move on again after making the wrong decisions. Too often in church we’re told to ‘just pray and wait’ on God for things to change in our lives, specifically when it comes to finding a partner. Just like making friends is a process you can pray to God about but you understand that it also takes an effort on your part of going to a running club, a church evening or a pub for that matter, finding a partner is a process that requires both God’s input and your activity.
On the other hand there space for us to make our own choices.
I’m Dutch, so allow me compare it to riding a bicycle.
Add or delete parts to communicate applicable rules regarding romantic relationships in the workplace and preserve harmony and fairness among all employees.Forcing things to happen is manipulating and pressuring someone into liking you.Succeeding in that may be even scarier than failing at it.Being a parent myself it’s helpful for me to imagine God as an involved, loving father.Someone who cares for us so much he doesn’t want any harm to happen to us on the one hand, but wants us to develop into responsible adults who are capable of making their own decisions on the other hand.