Imagine this: you met a cute girl in a club on Saturday night, after you swapped some texts Sunday you arranged a date…
two weeks from now (because of that work conference/ essay deadline/ her hectic social life). Remember when you made that commitment to go to a friend’s birthday way ahead of time?
A couple in a rowunanswered though could spell trouble.
Give her a few days to respond and if you don’t hear anything, pick up the phone and try to build her interest levels the old fashioned way—by having a conversation.
Then the day comes around, you haven’t caught up with your friend in ages, you’ve got a busy week at work, you feel broke and you FLAKE.Exactly the same things may go through a girl’s mind in the run up to meeting you.If you got her number quickly, if she was uncertain to begin with, if it’s ages before you can meet again in person, you need to stay in touch.The shorter and more direct they are the higher risk they become.‘So . Instead of trying to keep her talking, give her some space to miss you. These texts should be generally low investment i.e.It shouldn’t matter too much if you send one with no response.